Relationships:
Compatibility & Attraction...
![]() Find out how the balance of elements between lovers' natal charts creates attraction.
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People want what they don't have. We are strongly attracted to whatever is lacking or missing from our natal chart. If you find yourself constantly attracted to Cancers, look at your chart. Do you have any water in your chart? Is your sun or moon sign a water sign? Probably not. You are attracted to Cancers because they give you the water you are missing and that you need. It is nearly impossible to have a perfectly balanced chart. Something will be lacking. Whether it's water, earth, air or fire, at least one of these elements is not going to be well represented in your chart. This is the element you will look for in other people. The people who have the most of it, will be the most attractive to you.
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Is your Relationship Based on Attraction or Compatibility?
This test breaks down the levels of compatibility versus attraction between any two people. Based on the primary astrological factors at play when two people combine in a relationship, each planet is weighted based on how it influences the compatibility or attraction between two people. Then, the overall balance of masculine and feminine forces in each person are weighed to give an overall total that describes the basic compatibility or attraction level in the relationship.
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Attraction:
You Complete Me...

When you find someone who has the signs and elements you are missing, you feel attraction.
That person will have your missing puzzle piece and will be attractive to you. Look at your sun, moon and personal planet (Mercury, Venus, Mars) signs. Are they fire and earth for example? If so, you are missing air and water. A person with an air or water sun or moon sign will help complete you. They will provide your missing element. This will feel exciting and you will feel drawn to them. They will give you that certain energy that you are lacking. You literally need what the other person has.
That person will have your missing puzzle piece and will be attractive to you. Look at your sun, moon and personal planet (Mercury, Venus, Mars) signs. Are they fire and earth for example? If so, you are missing air and water. A person with an air or water sun or moon sign will help complete you. They will provide your missing element. This will feel exciting and you will feel drawn to them. They will give you that certain energy that you are lacking. You literally need what the other person has.
If you are missing water, you are attracted to water sign people.
If you are missing air, you are attracted to air sign people.
If you are missing earth, you are attracted to earth sign people.
If you are missing fire, you are attracted to fire sign people.
If you are missing air, you are attracted to air sign people.
If you are missing earth, you are attracted to earth sign people.
If you are missing fire, you are attracted to fire sign people.
Compatibility:
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Sun Signs in the Same Element...You will get along well with someone who has their sun in the same sign or elements as yours. Fire signs get along well with other fire signs, earth signs with other earth signs, etc. Sharing the same sun sign element gives you both the same interests in activities, the same general activity level, a similar style of likes and dislikes with movies, clothes, with other friends and with your own relationship! Would you rather play a sport outside with a large group of people or watch a show and have a snack just the two of you? Sun signs in the same element will agree on these choices. The expectations in the relationship will also be similar. Two Aquarians will understand that neither wants too much emotionally deep conversation. Two Cancers will understand that the other actually needs emotionally deep conversation. Look around at your friends. You will find many with their sun sign in the same element as yours. Sharing the same sun sign, or sun sign element, is the easiest combination for friendship.
Attraction With Compatibility:
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Attraction Without Compatibility:
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Have you been in a relationship where a great friendship forms and you both want attraction, but it simply isn't there? You are both good looking, you get along so well, but there's no spark. Or a relationship where the attraction only goes one way? I'm attracted to you, but you're not attracted to me.
If there is no attraction at all, you may both have all of the same elements or even many of the same signs in your natal charts. There's nothing unique and intriguing to stir attraction. There is compatibility and that leads to a great friendship, but that's all. If the attraction is only one way, then only one of you is satisfying the other's need for the lack of an element in their natal chart. They may give you the earth you lack, but you don't have the air they need. Therefore, you are attracted to them, but they aren't attracted to you. |
Moon Sign Compatibility:
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The Zodiac Signs & Commitment to Relationships...Read our complete description of each zodiac sign's attitude toward commitment to relationships. Starting with Aries and ending with Pisces, the signs are Ranked from Quickest to Slowest in their ability to commit to relationships. Understand how their willingness to commit is intimately connected with their modality....(Click to read article)
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