Rising Sign Attraction...
Rising Signs by Element...
A person with a rising sign in an element we lack in our own natal chart can be instantly and intensely attractive to us. They are reacting to life's events exactly how we wish we could if we didn't lack that element. We are amazed by them and want to experience them.
Because the rising sign is what you first see when you meet a person, it can cause instant attraction if it fills a void in you by giving you an element you lack in your chart.
You may feel they are more of who you would like to be...
The fire signs are stronger and braver.
The water signs are more sensitive and loving.
The air signs are more calm and intellectual.
The earth signs are more cautious and stable.
The very first moment we meet someone, we are primarily meeting their rising sign.
If we find someone attractive at this first moment, their rising sign is what is attracting us. We wear our rising sign like we wear clothing. We can't hide it like we can hide our moon or other planets. It's the outermost, obvious part of our astrological make up. If another person typically likes the sign you have rising, they will like you...in the beginning at least. If your sun and moon sign are unattractive to them, your rising sign will never be powerful enough to sustain the relationships. But it is certainly the powerful force when they first meet you.
Rising Sign Compatibility...
In relationships, we are interacting with our partner's rising sign constantly. The everyday quick decisions like, eating at home or going out and how to deal with the phone call from the complaining in-laws are made by our rising signs. So are our immediate reactions to our partner's comments and to problems that come our way. Every day we are constantly bombarded with these things, making compatibility between rising signs crucial to a happy relationship. If the desires, reactions and decisions of your partner's rising sign are distasteful or annoying to you, it can feel like you are clashing all day, everyday. It's relentless. Every time something happens and your partner reacts to it, they are reacting with their rising sign. On the other hand, when rising signs are compatible, it's like seeing life through the same color lenses. Everyday interactions with your partner are smoother and easier because you see and react to everything with the same point of view.
Rising Sign Gripes...
To AIR RISING people:
"Why can't you ever feel anything? You always have to remain so calm. You're like a robot."
"Don't you ever get hurt? Isn't anything worth getting upset about?"
"Not everything is a puzzle to figure out. Sometimes things just happen."
To EARTH RISING people:
"Don't you ever want to get up from that chair and do something?"
"Sometimes I don't want to you solve my problem. I just need you to listen and understand."
"Stop planning ahead for me. Stop watching out for me. The world isn't that dangerous."
To WATER RISING people:
"Everything that happens isn't a personal attack on you. Sometimes things have nothing to do you with you, but you get emotional about everything."
"How long do you have to vent your feelings? Was it really that much of a big deal?"
"I can't always wait for your mood to improve before we move on and do something else."
To FIRE RISING people:
"Can't you ever just stop and think before you lash out?"
"Life isn't your stage. You don't have to always put on show."
"People have feelings. You shouldn't just say the first thing that comes to your mind."