The Modalities & Commitment...
To some people, commitment means giving up more than you are getting.
To others, it means assuring you always have what you really want regardless of any other options.
Your point of view on commitment has a lot do with the balance of modalities in your natal chart.
To others, it means assuring you always have what you really want regardless of any other options.
Your point of view on commitment has a lot do with the balance of modalities in your natal chart.
Are you mostly cardinal, fixed or mutable? Modalities tell the story of commitment. Your willingness to make commitments, attitude toward commitments, and ability to stick to commitments are determined by the balance of modalties in your chart. With the sun, moon and rising sign having the greatest influence, you can look at the signs of the planets in your chart to get a good idea of how you handle commitment.
The Modality Pyramid...
The modalities are best conceptualized as forming a pyramid. The cardinal signs form the top point of the pyramid. Like the head of an arrow, they are focused and always moving toward a goal, yet because they are at the top of the pyramid and narrowly focused, they take up the least amount of space on the modality pyramid. So, they experience the least amount of variety in their lives. They are the quickest to make commitments because they see commitment as the end-point of reaching their goals. However, they don't always stick to their commitments because they easily become inspired by new goals. The fixed signs are in the middle of the pyramid. They take up more space than the cardinal signs, so they experience more variety in life. They are slower to make commitments. But more than the cardinals, they are willing to stick with them because they are less inclined toward forward movement. The mutables form the bottom of the pyramid. As the furthest from the top point, they are the least focused and goal oriented. They take up the most space in the pyramid, so they have a strong need to experience the most variety in life. They are the least willing to make commitments or stick to commitments they do make.
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The Cardinal Signs & Commitment...
The Fixed Signs & Commitment...The Fixed Signs:
Taurus, Leo, Scorpio & Aquarius The fixed signs are slower to commit than the cardinal signs, but once they commit, they are more likely to stick to it. These are the careful people. Although in matters of romance, Leo has a weakness for rushing into commitments, which is counter to their fixed nature.
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Then, because they invest so much in the decision process and take it so seriously, they really want to stick to it. In the end, they are the signs who enjoy commitment the most. Commitments make life feel real and solid. Commitments make them feel like their time and energy is not wasted on things that will come and go. The fixed signs like predictability, and commitment is the perfect way to achieve it.
The Mutable Signs & Commitment...The Mutable Signs:
Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius & Pisces The mutable signs see commitments as endings rather than beginnings. For them, committing to something is the same as saying "no" to everything else. Above all, the mutable signs want freedom. Commitment is the opposite of freedom. At the bottom of the modality pyramid, the mutable signs want as much variety as possible in their lives. They don't like final decisions that close out all other possibilities.
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It's difficult for a mutable sign to commit to a plan for the evening, so expecting them to commit to something life-long, like a career or marriage, is asking a great deal. They prefer dating, and they prefer jobs that offer the most flexibility possible. However, there is a back door into their world of commitment issues. There are commitments that actually give them more freedom. When an opportunity to commit to something that expands their world comes along, they are quite likely to accept it. Committing to a career that guarantees freedom in their own schedule and ample money to experience all life has to offer appeals to them. They are willing to commit to marrying someone who takes care of their basic needs and gives them money, which frees them to experience more of life.
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The Zodiac Signs & Commitment to Relationships...Read our complete description of each zodiac sign's attitude toward commitment to relationships. Starting with Aries and ending with Pisces, the signs are Ranked from Quickest to Slowest in their ability to commit to relationships. Understand how their willingness to commit is intimately connected with their modality....(Click to read article)
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