The Elements in Synastry...Our lovers' elements balance us.
We are unconsciously attracted to people who have the elements we lack. They fill a need in us that is difficult to satisfy any other way.
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Rare is the person who has a completely balanced chart. There will be a lacking or missing element. Often there will be two lacking or missing elements. Our lives are a constant unconscious search for these lacking or missing elements. We can find the element in the world or in other people, but it is easier and more fulfilling to satisfy the need for a lacking or missing element in a relationship with another person than with activities in the world. Another person is a living embodiment of the elements they have in their chart. When in a relationship with that person, you experience their elements almost as if they are your own. Their elements fall into your synastry chart overlay through the planets which contain them and become a part of your life while you are in a relationship with that person. We are attracted to people who have the elements we are lacking on a deep unconscious level.
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We can simply look at the elements that are heavy or lacking between two people in a synastry chart overlay and get a very good idea of how satisfying the relationship can be. The element distributions are more easily seen in the below boxes than a circle chart.
Examples of element balances in relationships:They Want Brad Pitt's Earth...
Sources: www.astro.com, www.astrotheme.com
The most striking facet of the above element break downs for Jennifer Aniston, Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie are the lack of earth in Jennifer and Angelina's charts and the abundance of earth in Brad Pitt's. For astrological balance, both Jennifer and Angelina should be drawn to Brad's earth to satisfy their lack of earth. All three are heavy in fire which gives them all compatibility; however, the greatest pull for balance is Brad's earth. Also notice that Brad lacks air and water. Both Jennifer and Angelina provide him with air and water.
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Jennifer Aniston has had several publicized relationships with people heavy in fire and air (Vince Vaughn, John Mayer, Tate Donovan, and Justin Theroux) which, astrologically, is great for compatibility, but not for fulfillment in terms of her elements. Her two publicized relationships with people heavy in earth were with Brad Pitt and Adam Duritz. Jennifer lacks earth and astrologically needs earth to be balanced.
Sources: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jennifer_Aniston,www.astrotheme.com |
Aniston said her relationship with Pitt, which she does not regret, was "seven very intense years together" and that "it was a beautiful, complicated relationship." Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jennifer_Aniston |
Angelina Jolie has a lack of earth and has had several publicized relationships with people who also lack earth (Johnny Lee Miller, Billy Bob Thornton and Jenny Shimizu ) Astrologically, these relationships did not fulfill her need for earth. In these relationships she found compatibility in fire and air and these relationships may have amplified her fire and air qualities which are already strong in her chart. Astrology shows that with Brad she has a strong attraction, which comes from her need for earth.
Sources: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Angelina_Jolie, www.astrotheme.com
Sources: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Angelina_Jolie, www.astrotheme.com
Bill Wants Hillary's Water & Hillary Wants Bill's Air & Earth...
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Bill Clinton
Fire: Heavy
Air: Heavy Earth: Average Water: Lacking |
Hillary Clinton
Fire: Heavy
Air: Lacking Earth: Lacking Water: Heavy |
Between Bill and Hillary Clinton there is a need a for water in Bill and an abundance of water in Hillary. The balance with the water element between the two is obvious and large in the above charts. Hillary has a lack of air with the only two planets in air in her chart being Neptune and Uranus which are outer planets, and therefore contribute little. Bill has a heavy air influence in his chart with two personal planets, three outer planets and his ascendant all in air. The element of earth is also lacking in Hillary's chart with the only contributors being her north node and midheaven, rather than actual planets or the ascendant. Bill's moon is in earth in the sign of Taurus which is a large contributor. Bill and Hillary fulfill each other in terms of their balance of elements.
George and Laura Bush Balance Each Other...
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George Bush
Fire: Heavy
Air: Heavy Earth: Lacking Water: Average |
Laura Bush
Fire: Average
Air: Lacking Earth: Average Water: Heavy |
Sources: www.astro.com, www.astrotheme.com
The balance between George and Laura is more subtle and they are very astrologically compatible. They share water suns and have Mercury, Venus and Pluto in fire. However, for George and Laura Bush there is a balance between earth and air. George has a only one planet in earth, but Laura's earth ascendant in Taurus helps to balance George. Laura has only two outer planets in air along with Chiron and her north node which is not a powerful combination. Like Laura, George has the same planets, Chiron and north node in air, but he also has Jupiter and his moon in air. The moon and Jupiter add a powerful punch which helps to balance Laura.