Scorpio Relationships: Compatibility & Attraction...
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Intense and loyal, Scorpio is a serious sign whose passion runs deep. In relationships, Scorpio is possessive and sexual. They enjoy commitment and will want to know you on every level. |
When two Scorpios find each other, they are likely to pair up permanently. Although they are sometimes slow to make a final decision on commitment, Scorpio enjoys commitment once they have made up their mind. And it's easy to make the commitment with another Scorpio. There's a certain security to the combination which makes them both feel comfortable. These two do need to beware of sinking into themselves and possibly becoming somewhat isolated from others. They need to make sure they keep things interesting and don't bring each other down with negativity, which is usually do to lack of activity or brooding over issues which they should just put aside. Of course, there will be times when this combination is just too comfortable and doesn't offer the interesting dynamic that differing personalities give. It is not a relationship that frequently results in romance. It does lend itself to easy friendships however.
Scorpio's intense and probing nature can clash with Sagittarius' need for freedom, but in the right circumstances it can lead to interesting conversation. Sagittarius is happy to analyze things right along with Scorpio, including Sagittarius' own personality. They will allow Scorpio to ask awkwardly personal questions and Sagittarius will answer graciously. It's only when Scorpio does it for the purpose of control that Sagittarius will run away, or worse, issue a cutting remark that shuts Scorpio down in a flash. Scorpio finds Sagittarius attractive because Sagittarius is hard to pin down. It isn't that Sagittarius plays hard to get on purpose or to avoid people, it's just their nature. For Scorpio, it's a challenge. Scorpio also finds Sagittarius' honest, candid nature refreshing and baffling as it is contrary to Scorpio's need for privacy. But Sagittarius often finds Scorpio's cautious and private nature mysteriously attractive, and Scorpio's passionate sexuality compelling. As their natures differ, compatibility may not be high, but attraction is likely.
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Scorpio - Capricorn
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Scorpio and Capricorn share an "all is fair in war" attitude. Both signs will fight to the death, metaphorically of course, when it comes to something that is close to their heart. For Capricorn it may be their family or their livelihood. Scorpio will fight for these things too, but they will also fight for a lover. Capricorn never gets that attached to any individual person. Capricorn and Scorpio share an essentially serious nature, although Capricorn can more easily break loose from it than Scorpio. They are attached and committed people who never want to lose ground. Once they have achieved something, gained a lover, or raised a family, they will never let it go. They get along quite well and have few differences. They are both aggressive, although Capricorn is more overt about it. Scorpio hides its weapons until they are required. In love, Scorpio may be disappointed by Capricorn's lack of passion. They may be better as friends.
Scorpio - Aquarius
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Scorpio and Aquarius have a difference in their natures which can make this relationship awkward unless there is an attraction which binds them together. Scorpio is the sign that invites the deepest emotions into their lives, while Aquarius avoids emotion. These two may find that this difference is very attractive; however, if they do not, it can be uncomfortable. Scorpio will have no success probing Aquarius for deeper meaning in the things Aquarius does or says. Aquarius thinks it is unnecessary and inappropriate. They don't want to be examined. These signs are not without similarities however. Both signs have a serious, aloof manner they use as their guard against the world, and although Scorpio will probe you, they are no different from Aquarius in not wanting anyone to probe them. They are both solid, determined, and careful signs who take life seriously. This relationship will work if they can sort out their emotional differences.
Scorpio - Pisces
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Pisces and Scorpio would seem to be the perfect sexual match, but they don't frequently pair together. Too much similarity may keep these from joining sexually as often as you may think. It is a great combination for friendship though, as they can empathize with each other about any of the day's emotional tribulations. They understand each other better than most and can read each other's feelings amazingly well. They do differ, however, when it comes to control in relationships, which doesn't really come into play in friendships they way it does in love. Pisces is not jealous or possessive. Pisces has no need to control their mate. They simply ask that their mate doesn't attempt to control them. Scorpio doesn't want their mate to control them either, but they do need to have at least some control over their mate. This is the rub for these two. Pisces may find Scorpio to be jealous, intrusive and controlling. Whereas Scorpio may find Pisces to be evasive and untrustworthy. This can be the one wrinkle to iron out for this otherwise easy relationship to work.
This can be a very hot combination romantically but beware of conflicts over power. Although their styles differ, a love of control and power is what these signs share in common. It can make the relationship intense and exciting, but it also leads to battles that can overwhelm the relationship enough to kill it. Aries is overt and obvious with its need for power by stating outright that they will be in charge. Scorpio is subtle. Their need for power is unspoken, but they will not be controlled by anyone. All of this energy can be exciting and lead to powerful attraction. In the long run, agreements over control, leadership and power need to be ironed out for the relationship to be a success.
Taurus and Scorpio both hold on tightly to their values and possessions. They respect one another for this. However, they differ on their value of depth and emotional sharing. Scorpio believes that Taurus lacks depth of emotion and should be more willing to share, while Taurus thinks Scorpio expects too much emotional intimacy. Scorpio likes to probe. They want to know how people feel about everything and why. Taurus is only interested if it makes them money and pleasure. For Taurus, it's all nonsense and the question of why does not need to be asked. For Taurus the only question is how. How can Taurus make money to get things that will give them pleasure? These differences are fundamental and relationships between these signs can be hot or cold. The differences may be seen as very attractive or they may drive a wedge between the two.
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Scorpio - Gemini
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Gemini and Scorpio relationships occur frequently. These signs find each other very attractive. Gemini loves freedom and often waits until later in life to marry. They are very difficult to pin down and Scorpio loves the challenge. Scorpio's passion wins them over more times than not. Gemini's evasiveness is intriguing for Scorpio who constantly feels there is more to know. Scorpio loves to probe people and dig deep into their psyche to gain what may seem like secret information. It always seems to Scorpio that Gemini has more than they can tell about themselves. In this way, Gemini holds Scorpio's interest. Gemini is enthralled by Scorpio's deep emotional nature because it differs completely from Gemini's natural indifference, and they feel compelled to dive deep into Scorpio's mysterious waters. But it isn't all about differences, Scorpio and Gemini share a love of figuring things out. Gemini is just more up front about it, and goes about it intellectually. Scorpio won't necessarily let you know when they are doing it and it has more of an emotional motivation. Regardless of the reason, these two can keep each other interested for a very long time.
Scorpio - Cancer
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More alike than different, Cancer and Scorpio can see right through one another. With Cancer, Scorpio has a tough time doing it's usual routine of getting inside another person without allowing the other person to get inside them. Cancer is a ruler in the world of emotion and can feel out Scorpio's motivations and secrets even without Scorpio's permission. This transparency lends mutual understanding and a very smooth relationship is found. Even though they both have enough emotional depth and passion to make a great pair of lovers, it's the transparency that diminishes the possibility for attraction. Also, Scorpio and Cancer are likely to want more excitement than either is able to supply. Neither is notably active and vivacious. To make matters worse they are both prone to spells of depressing brooding. These two make better friends than lovers. There's no mystery and not enough differences to admire or appreciate.
Scorpio - Leo
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Scorpio and Leo both enjoy sex for the sake of sex. Of course they can also fall in love, although a simple friendship is much less likely as Leo and Scorpio are very different. Leo is trusting while Scorpio is suspicious. Scorpio is always careful, while Leo is often careless. With these basic differences in their natures, these two can actually feel some awkwardness together unless their is an underlying attraction to bind them together. However, they can find common ground in that both signs have an unending desire to go beyond the ordinary to find something more meaningful in life. Scorpio is all about the unseen and hidden, and Leo often lives in their imagination on a constant search for hidden drama and beauty in life. The attraction will be based on a shared desire to go beyond the intellectual and physical into the intuitive and emotional realms of awareness.
Scorpio and Virgo are both careful decision makers in all areas of life, but particularly when it comes to love and money. When it comes to money, they both agree that not using care is just plain stupid. With love, both may at some point fall victim to the lure of a fling, but when it comes to choosing to commit to a mate, serious consideration is used. Virgo doesn't want to give up freedom for someone who doesn't respect their individuality, and Scorpio doesn't want to commit to someone who won't completely merge with them. The primary difference between them is their level of emotional depth on an individual level and in partnerships. Virgo can sometimes be shallow, while Scorpio is forever deep. Even the caddy female Scorpio who enjoys critiquing all of the other girls with her Virgo friend is harboring deep feelings inside that she probably isn't sharing with Virgo. The critiques are only conversation topics for Virgo. The things Scorpio cares about most relate to feelings and emotions, rather than anything tangible and "out there". Scorpio is all about what's inside, while Virgo is perfectly happy dealing with what's outside. These two are more often friends than lovers.
A frequent relationship, Libra and Scorpio often enjoy a great deal of attraction. Libra is flirtatious and Scorpio enjoys the hunt. These two can have a great time dating and, in the end, both are happy to commit. Scorpio finds Libra's light and optimistic ways fascinating as Scorpio's world is so deep and heavy. Libra can lift Scorpio out of its frequent brooding state of melancholy and help Scorpio live more fully, while Scorpio offers Libra a new level of depth and intimacy which Libra wouldn't normally choose. Libra may see Scorpio as a mysterious and sexy challenge due to Scorpio's evasive nature, but Libra's powers of attraction will eventually break down Scorpio's walls. As long as Scorpio doesn't spend too much time in its deep, dark waters of emotion, and Libra doesn't offend Scorpio by taking the relationship too lightly and spreading themselves out too thinly, this can be a great combination.
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