Gemini Relationships: Compatibility & Attraction...
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Active and observant, Gemini enjoys gathering information, sorting through it and reporting it back to whomever is interested. In relationships, Gemini can be slow to commit. They need plenty of time to investigate and process all of the interesting things in the world on their own before they become serious about a mate. Once committed, they remain light and on the go, a partner who will always be informative and interesting.
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Two Geminis are likely to commit later in life as they value their youth and freedom. Once together, they will have an exceptional understanding of one another which they should be careful not to use against each other when a conflict arises. Geminis are sharp and use words as weapons. If a Gemini has knowledge, they will use it. It could be used as leverage or as fuel. Put two of them together and you are likely to either have quite a bit of game playing with manipulative tactics or, hopefully, they will call a truce realizing that they are equals in these games and there will never be a winner. Either way, it won't be boring. Together they will stay busy while keeping close tabs on one another. Gemini wants to know everything that is happening in every area of their partner's life. In the best scenario, this works out well and this active couple keeps each other on their toes in a stimulating relationship. In any event, these two are more often friends than lovers, as they lack the differences often desired for attraction.
This pair is very different. Cancer operates on feelings and Gemini operates on intellect. Cancer is very deep and emotional, but is secretly envious of Gemini's ability to slide through life without getting ruffled by hurt feelings. Cancer would love to have Gemini's ability to tell someone off with just the right words when their feelings were hurt instead of letting their feelings rule their reaction. That is, as long as Cancer isn't the receipt of those choice words. Gemini is fascinated by Cancer's ability to feel what motivates people and have a sense of people just from being near them. These two can enjoy attraction as long as they appreciate these differences between them rather than allowing them to create a rub.
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Gemini - Leo
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Leo and Gemini can have an easy friendship. Together, these two never get bored. Leo appreciates Gemini's light, active style and Gemini loves Leo's ability to knock down boundaries and live by their gut. These attitudes combine into a fun pair. Although they do have some differences. At times Leo may feel that Gemini is too harsh a critic and lacks depth and passion. From Gemini's point of view, Leo can be rather unrealistic and too often gets lost in drama and fantasy about things that Gemini doesn't even see as existing. Overall, however, these two make good friends. Attraction is sometimes seen, but is not as likely as friendship.
Gemini - Virgo
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Virgo and Gemini often make a great combination. Both ruled by Mercury, these two get one another, yet there are enough differences to spur attraction. Detailed oriented by nature, neither sign is offended by the other's correcting them when they are wrong about even the smallest matter. Facts are facts and if they are wrong, Gemini and Virgo will be the first signs to admit it. Both signs also share a love of freedom. For the most part, they will each honor the needs of the other when it comes to space in the relationship. Their differences, however, do start to come out in this area. Gemini, being air, requires more freedom than Virgo. Virgo will be ready to settle down before Gemini and once together, Virgo will want more of a conventional relationship with dinner time and Sundays together. Overall though, these two can really make it work and have a satisfying relationship.
Gemini - Libra
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More alike than different, Gemini and Libra get along quite well, but are infrequently attracted to one another. They share a flighty and evasive nature and both stay in constant motion. Conversations are all over the place, jumping from topic to topic and neither really does a very good job of listening to the other. Their minds are simply too busy thinking about the next thing. Neither feels emotionally drawn to the other because they understand each other too well. It is more of an intellectual relationship rather than a feeling relationship and they can make great friends. But, there can sometimes be a rub between the two because Libra may feel that Gemini is too harsh and needs to think before they speak because people can be offended by the facts. Whereas, Gemini wonders why Libra needs to sugar coat the truth and worry so much about what people think.
Gemini and Scorpio relationships occur frequently. These signs find each other very attractive. Gemini loves freedom, and often waits until later in life to marry. They are very difficult to pin down and Scorpio loves the challenge. Scorpio's passion wins them over more times than not. Gemini's evasiveness is intriguing for Scorpio who constantly feels there is more to know. Scorpio loves to probe people and dig deep into their psyche to gain what may seem like secret information. It always seems to Scorpio that Gemini has more than they can tell about themselves. In this way, Gemini holds Scorpio's interest. Gemini is enthralled by Scorpio's deep emotional nature because it differs completely from Gemini's natural indifference, and they feel compelled to dive deep into Scorpio's mysterious waters. But it isn't all about differences, Scorpio and Gemini share a love of figuring things out. Gemini is just more up front about it and goes about it intellectually. Scorpio won't necessarily let you know when they are doing it and it has more of an emotional motivation. Regardless of the reason, these two can keep each other interested for a very long time.
Both blunt and candid, these two can have some great conversations with each filling in where the other leaves off. Sagittarius is a great conversation starter and can bring up some great topics. Gemini knows at least a little about everything and can always help by responding with some facts about the topic. In this way, these two signs can be supplementary in that each sign helps out where the other lacks. Gemini and Sagittarius are opposites who still share some things in common. They both strive to understand their worlds, but Sagittarius focuses on large-scale topics like philosophy and religion that search for big answers to questions of why, and Gemini prefers to analyze the details and facts that answers questions of how. This relationship can go well or poorly depending on how they feel about their differences.
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Gemini - Capricorn
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Capricorn and Gemini enjoy a supplementary relationship which can foster a great deal of attraction. They each have skills the other admires. Gemini loves Capricorn's overtly-direct style in dealing with challenges and Capricorn is amazed by Gemini's ability to always find a loophole or a secret passage to success. Together, they can really get far. Their styles combine nicely and each fills in where the other lacks. If Capricorn's aggressive, head-on approach isn't getting it done, Gemini's conversational acrobatics may do the trick. Each feels the other has their back and they respect each other, even when they don't completely understand one another. To keep this relationship going, Capricorn should take care not to make Gemini feel boxed in with the seriousness of heavy responsibilities and commitments, while Gemini should remember that Capricorn needs a reliable mate who doesn't fold under pressure.
Gemini - Aquarius
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A very easy relationship is found between Gemini and Aquarius. These two share a common sense of emotional separateness in relationships which is often attractive to other signs but they generally do not find it attractive in each other. This is why Aquarius and Gemini are more often friends than lovers unless other factors in their charts are found attractive. These signs can speak frankly to one another and feelings don't get hurt. Each understands that the other does not want to even enter the realm of feelings and simply wants to be able to express their thoughts and opinions without being judged. Compatibility is high here as these two understand this about each other.
Gemini - Pisces
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Pisces and Gemini share a love of freedom. Both prefer to have flexibility in their lives by not getting tied down to nine-to-five jobs or committing to restrictive relationships of any type. This similarity works to their advantage in relationships together. But they also enjoy their differences. Gemini is forever intrigued by Pisces' nebulous and fluid nature. Gemini's world is filled with facts, figures and details. Pisces avoids these things like the plague. Pisces prefers to float from one esoterically pleasurable experience to the next, the whole time avoiding being tied down with facts and details which Pisces considers trivial and exhausting. However Pisces does respect and admire Gemini's ability to focus on these things. This dynamic of differing natures between Gemini and Pisces can breed attraction. The difficulty in this combination lies with Pisces' need for depth of feeling which Gemini is not likely to provide in high enough doses while Gemini is likely to become frustrated with Pisces' scattered, unorganized and sometimes unreliable ways.
This sign combination works well, Aries and Gemini both enjoy freedom and both have a desire to explore new things. Neither is deeply emotional or serious. They both prefer to keep things light. Aries appreciates Gemini's flexible nature and Gemini doesn't mind letting Aries take the lead. They basically stay out of each other's way. Both are blunt and to the point in conversation and aren't offended by the other's truthful and accurate comments. There is rarely any deep attraction, but it is generally an easy relationship.
Difficulty understanding each other can make this combination a bit tough. These signs are very different. Gemini is light and active, while Taurus is rooted and stable. They will surely clash when decisions are to be made about activities. Another sore spot may be in communication. Gemini is factual and blunt, whereas, Taurus is likely to sugar coat to spare the other's feelings. Taurus isn't sensitive, but Gemini's candor can wear on them. However, for many of these couples, the differences are attractive. Gemini's light and active spirit can invigorate Taurus and Taurus' solid and careful nature can stabilize Gemini.
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