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Mars in Gemini...

It's difficult to notice when the Mars in Gemini person is going after something they want.They are a bit scattered and easily distracted in pursuing their goals. So, if they're pursuing you, you may not realize it at first. A Mars in Gemini person may start a conversation with you while simultaneously speaking with two or three other people. Don't worry, they haven't forgot about you. They'll come back around to you and amazingly pick up right where they left off. Conversations involving wit, humor and teasing are popular "pick up" tactics for those with their Mars in Gemini. Words are their tool in getting whatever they want, whether it's a job, an object or a person. So much so that it can seem that they are just very talkative when they're actually attracted to you and trying to get your attention. When they finally focus on you amid all of their chatter, watch them use words to sell you on how great they are. It really can sound like a sales pitch, or the less direct types will use jokes or an endless stream of questions. 

Whatever it is, it involves a lot of talking. Once they have your attention and you realize they like you, you may actually end up losing their attention. When the pursuit over, their easily bored and distracted nature can make them feel like you are a puzzle that is already solved and you don't seem so interesting any more. If you like them, make sure you keep their attention. Keep them talking. Probe them with questions. Tell them how smart they are and spark their interest with new topics. 

The more outlandish, the better. Mundane, common things will bore them. Challenge their mind and make them think, or they will pursue someone who does. They need intellectual stimulation and are driven to seek it out in the world and in people. Even common gossip is better than talking about work or the weather, or God forbid, yourself. You will lose them immediately if you start talking about your feelings or anything too personal.

To keep Mars in Gemini people focused on their goals, they require variety and stimulation. They get bored very easily. Goals must be pursued quickly before they lose interest. They are aware of this tendency in themselves. Many of these chart holders have difficultly reaching their goals because of their lack of focus. It is common for them to start one thing without finishing it, and then start another, neither of which actually reach completion. Fortunately, their quick, agile mental abilities usually help them achieve their goals quickly enough to avoid boredom and the inevitable distractions. They are clever and use words and wit to get their way. When they are focused, they are assuredly moving quickly toward their goal. Whoever or whatever gets in their way is dealt with immediately and without any reservation, tact or compassion. The words they use so nicely to win the affections of their mates can become sharp has knives when they aren't getting their way. Their quick minds find the words that hurt the most when they need to manipulate or directly combat someone.

The Mars in Gemini person can seem callous and cynical when they are pursing a goal because of their detached, unemotional nature. They see a goal and go straight for it without wasting time with fluffy, emotional considerations or tact. If you are a more emotional type, this can seem rude and cut throat. Don't take it personally. They are just on their own track and simply don't slow down long enough to consider other people's feelings. That doesn't mean they are setting out to hurt your feelings. They can use words as weapons sometimes, but that's only if they consider you a threat to their goals. Give them their space. Allow them to move quickly without letting your issues or feelings bog them down. You'll be amazed how clever they are and how much they can accomplish in so little time.

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